无一是你,无一不是你

谢谢你陪伴过我。

The reason i forgive you is because you are not perfect.
You are imperfect,and so am i.
All humans are imperfect,even the man outside my apartment who litters.
When i was young,i wanted to be anybody but myself.
Dr Bernard Hazelhof said if i was on a desert island then i would have to get used to my own company – just me and the coconuts.
He said i would have to accept myself,my warts and all,and that we don’t get to choose our warts.
They are a part of us and we have to live with them.
We can,however,choose our friends and i glad i have chosen you.
Dr Bernard Hazelhof also said the everyone’s lives and like a very long sidewalk.
Some are well paved.
Others,like mine,have cracks,banana skins and cigarette butts.
Your sidewalk is like mine but probably not as many cracks.
Hopefully,one day our sidewalks will meet and we can share a can of condensed milk.
You are my best friend.
You are my only friend.


我相信mary和max是相爱的,因为爱的那一刻,自己卑微到尘土里,然后开出花来。或许我本身就是一个孤独自卑的人,这种感受尤为强烈。时常会想到自己一个性格如此糟糕的人为什么会遇见你这么美好的人,你说你有一堆坏毛病,其实我也是一样的。以前我认为两个人在一起能相互理解是最重要的,但后来意识到人与人是很难相互理解的,能碰到得有多么幸运,真正更多的时候能做的还是相互包容,就像白头偕老这件事其实和爱情无关,岁月终会磨平一些东西,最后剩下的只不过是忍耐,但忍耐也是一种爱。真正爱你的人,其实就是愿意一直忍耐你的人。我能遇到你是有多么幸运。

我相信真正重要的事物并不会增加,只会越来越少。所以我很害怕失去你,回想起我是什么时候意识到自己喜欢你的,或许就是我让你离开公司的那一天吧。又或许我害怕的不是失去你,而是害怕你的难过与忧伤。我时常能从你的眼神里看出你的情绪,我难过自己不能与你同悲,我担心自己不能给你想要的。这也是我不为自己争取的原因,我总觉得你应该能碰到更好的人。其实你不在,我觉得自己也能独自一人走下去,可这不代表你不重要。就像霍根施拉格说的那样,“爱你是我唯一重要的事,莱斯特小姐。有人觉得爱就是性,是婚姻,是清晨六点的吻和一堆孩子,或许爱就是这样,莱斯特小姐,但你知道我怎么想吗?我觉得爱是想触碰却又收回手。”

我一直都记得我们第一次相遇的画面,我坐在桌前看着楼梯发着呆,然后你慢慢的走上楼梯,我并不喜欢盯着人看,但我不知道为什么我的视线却一直追随着你,然后你看到了我,你对我点了点头,我对你微笑了一下。这是一个故事的开头,而结局已不重要。

爱或许可以让人卑微到尘土里,但是我相信爱也可以让一个怯懦的人充满勇气。

 
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